Party Planning 101 - The Complete Party Planning Checklist
- Nichole Groom
- Jan 24
- 3 min read
Updated: Mar 17

You've just finished reading "Planning 101 - Let's Start with the Basics," right? If not, you may want to take a few minutes to read through the different considerations and decisions you'll be making as you plan. It will also make this checklist a bit easier to follow.
Review the checklist below to ideate on your vision, get organized and feel confident hosting your next party! OR - download the checklist PDF at the bottom of this page to get started.

Expected Date of Party (use this date to fill in the Date to Complete column):
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Party Theme and Vision: ___________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Days/weeks out | Task | Notes | Date to Complete |
6 - 8 weeks out | Get Ready: | ||
Who: who do you want to invite? | Details on questions are found in the 101 post | ||
What: what should guests expect? | |||
When: when is the party? | |||
Where: where is the location? | |||
Why: why are you hosting this party? | |||
Pick your food and beverage option | |||
Define total party spend | |||
Prioritize party spend 'elements' to identify how funds will be spent | |||
Create high level menu and define food / beverage style (i.e., dinner vs apps, full bar, BYOB, etc.) | This ties to your budget | ||
Finalize guest list | |||
Identify how you'll send 'save the dates' and/or invitations | This can be a combination of digital and mailed | ||
Finalize invitation content and details for guests (what to bring, attire, etc.) | |||
Gather guest contact info (if needed) | |||
Choose invitation layout | If sending printed invitations, adjust timing for ordering, addressing and mailing time - closer to 6 - 7 weeks out | ||
Send invitations | |||
3 - 6 weeks out | Get Set: | Refer to your vision and theme | |
Finalize decor needs and acquire or order anything needed | Check all items ordered as soon as they arrive |
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Finalize menu details and make the list of recipes you need |
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Create the music/playlist and confirm the technical setup at the party space | You may also want to use a curated station | ||
Make any hair, nail appts; plan for clothing you may need | |||
2 weeks out | Lets' Go! | ||
1 - 2 weeks out | Shop for all beer, liquor, wine, drinks | ||
1 - 2 weeks out | Create shopping list(s) | Create a separate list for each place you'll shop | |
1 week out | Organize pantry, refrigerator, etc. | Create the space needed for food purchased | |
2 - 3 days out | Prep serving dishes, plates, utensils, tablecloths, etc. Wash items as needed | Also plan where food, drinks, desserts will be set |
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2 - 3 days out | Review all recipes; be aware of any set times, chill times, cooking times, etc. | Confirm you have the right size pans or dishes | |
2 - 3 days out | Grocery and food shopping | Adjust based on items you can bake or prepare earlier | |
1 - 2 days out | Clean all areas | There's a final 'bathroom' wipedown the day of the party |
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1 - 2 days out | Have coolers / ice chests ready; clean as needed | ||
1 - 2 days out | Have plan for garbage receptacles and recyclables | ||
1 -2 days out | Create schedule for food and drink prep | The more detailed, the better | |
Day before | Make any food ahead of time Prep food: cut/chop/measure any items you'll use the day of the party | ||
Day before | Set up decorations (some may still need to be set on party day) |
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Day before | Plan your clothing, shoes, etc. | Plan for the theme as well as comfort | |
Morning of Party | Final cleaning and dusting; wipedown of bathroom(s) | This should be a 10 - 15 minute task | |
Morning of party | Make / prepare food items as appropriate | Cold appetizers, dips, etc. | |
3 - 4 hours before party | Your time! Shower, makeup-hair, etc. | You may want to change clothes closer to the party | |
Final hours before party | Continue food prep and ice in coolers | ||
1 hour to 30 minutes before | Walkthrough of your space and food prep | ||
30 minutes before | Prep for welcome cocktail (prep to pour drinks a few minutes before, or have a plan to keep them chilled) | ||
15 - 30 minutes before | Plate food and set tables as appropriate | This will be specific to the food being served and overall party setup | |
Party Time | Enjoy and have a TON OF FUN! | ||
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